After a while, the sex in a relationship starts to get more standard. You start with kissing, missionary style, and then doggy style. Although it’s not a bad thing, sometimes you want something more.
You know what I mean by “umpff.” I am aware that you are currently in a state of nostalgia. If you are getting all nostalgic about your past sexual experiences, well, fine.
How to have more intense sex
Maybe you are not able to get that “umpff” back into your life. Although, I understand that you may be working or going to school, having kids, and so on. With that in mind, I suggest that you take a break from your busy schedule and have some intense sex, even if it means wrinkles on your sheets.
1. Relax
The best sex is when you don’t care. Having fun and messy sex is what it’s all about. If you want to have an intense experience, you’ll have to let go of any inhibitions and be in sync with your emotions.
You should go with the flow and not worry about whether your fat will jiggle or not.
2. Go hard with the foreplay
Lose yourself in that shit. Just go wild with foreplay. If you don’t, you’ll just go straight to sex and honestly, penetration isn’t that exciting, nor is it intense. Having fun and messy sex is what it’s all about.
An intense experience involves eating and swallowing the entire body of your partner. If you’re feeling a little wet, good for you.
3. Experiment with kink
While people are conscious of their sexual desires, it’s up to you to let go and help them express themselves.
You have to explore your partner’s and yourself’ kinky side. This will help you have an even more intense experience. You can try going to a sex shop and browsing the items that turn both of you on.
4. Mutually masturbate
Mutual masturbation is considered to be one of the most sensual and intimate acts in the world. It involves touching yourself while looking at each other.
Although you may believe that this is impersonal, consider that it will make you want to pounce your partner.
5. Be aggressive
Everyone likes rough sex. When describing intense sex, one imagines being pushed against a wall and being kissed like an individual has been eaten.
If you’re not shy, then try spanking, hair pulling, and choking. Then, assess how aggressive your partner is.
6. Remove distractions
In order to have an intense experience, you must remove all distractions. Shut off the TV, put away your mobile devices, and focus only on each other.
If you have kids, then you should send them to your parents so that they can spend their time with their grandparents. Doing so will help you get through whatever is keeping you distracted.
7. Don’t just focus on the penis/vagina
There are so many different areas of the body that need attention, and it’s not just the vagina that’s sensitive.
Although the vagina and penis can be stimulated by touch, some individuals find pleasure in having their nipples or ears touched. You should also pay attention to the other erogenous areas, as these can be the ones that get people off.
8. Try something new
If you’re used to doing missionary and doggy-style positions, then switching to another one might be beneficial.
It may not go well, but try something new. Doing so will let your partner know that you’re an adventurous individual, which will make them want to have sex on their own.
9. Feel good by pleasuring your partner
Pleassing your partner while you’re feeling good can provide you with an amazing sexual experience.
If both of you are pleasuring each other, then it’s likely that intense sex will start to develop. The partner who isn’t giving their all will not be able to provide you with the best possible experience.
10. Do it because you want to
If you’re not a fan of something, don’t force yourself into doing it. If you’re satisfied with the sexual experience, then leave it.
If your partner desires more, then you should consider if they and you are truly compatible. However, if you’re forcing yourself into doing something, then it will not be an enjoyable experience.
11. Tease them
You want to make your partner work harder, so tease them. Don’t let them touch you, but only at a certain point. This will result in an increase in sexual tension and intensity between you.
12. Get out of your head
If you are constantly thinking about the details of a fight with your brother or work, then you won’t be able to enjoy the intense sexual stimulation that you desire. You are not in the present, and you are not able to truly pleasure your partner.
13. Focus on your breathing
You should sync your breathing with your sexual activity so that you can control the speed at which you engage in intercourse. For instance, you can start with an effortless breath and gradually increase the intensity of your sexual engagement.
14. Ladies, do Kegels
Although you may have heard of Kegels, you might not have tried them yet. With that in mind, it’s time to give them a try. They can help strengthen a woman’s orgasm.
For this exercise, a woman should hold her pelvic muscles for five seconds. Doing this throughout the day will strengthen them significantly.
15. Fellas, boost your testosterone
Although you don’t need to start taking steroids or bodybuilding to improve your testosterone, there are still simple steps that you can take to boost the amount of this substance in your body.
Those who have more testosterone in their bodies are more likely to have stronger orgasms. For instance, if you do a quick run before meeting a girl, this will help you feel great.
16. Don’t be so quick to get naked
I know that you want to have sex without clothes on. But, I’m not saying that you have to get naked just yet.
Dry humping and rubbing each other will help build up the intensity, and you shouldn’t remove the clothes immediately. But, if you want to maintain the tension, you can do it for as long as you want.
17. Quality over quantity
Although intense sex can last for a long time, it’s not about how long it lasts. What matters is the quality of the experience, and I have experienced both 10-minute and 45-minute sex sessions.
After all, you have acquired the necessary skills to engage in intense sex. Now, ignite the candles, bring out the toys, and get going.