Although true love can still be eternal, a successful relationship requires more than just that.
In addition to being passionate, a successful relationship also requires wild sexual experiences. While love is important, sex is equally important.
The sexy way to hot, steamy sex!
When it comes to having sex and having an exciting relationship, the first step is expressing yourself. You should communicate with your lover and let them know how much you care.
Even though society may frown upon you if you open up about anything other than intercourse in bed, your mind is full of sexual desires and deviant thoughts. Every couple should try new things in bed or talk about new sexual desires.
You’ll be surprised by how aroused your partner will be when you open up about the things that you want to experience in bed with them.
How to have passionate, hot sex all the time
According to experts, the brain is considered to be the biggest organ in the body. Having sex can stimulate the minds of both partners, making the sexual routine feel more alive and sexy.
One-hour a night dedicated to sex can turn into a lot more frequent and wild. Discussing your sexual preferences while having sex can be the easiest way to open up about your desires.
By having sex, our minds are opened and we are more open to discussing our thoughts. This allows us to express our desires without being inhibited.
After both of you have revealed your sexual preferences, both of you may start feeling like teenagers again.
Hot sex ideas to blow your lover’s mind
While it’s important to talk about your sexual preferences with your partner, there are other ways to spice up sex and make it more exciting. These sex ideas will have you both feeling great in bed.
1. Dress up for sex
Although you may have been used to being in bed without clothes, looking good in bed matters more than looking sexy as you walk out.
You should never assume that your partner can be turned on automatically. Instead, dress nicely and make sure that you smell great when you’re in the sheets.
2. Bring your favorite toys
Having sex toys is not an issue if you are not ashamed of what you have been using. They can be fun for both of you and may even help you open up about some secret desires.
3. Talk dirty
Explicit language can be used to express your feelings in bed, even if it may seem awkward at first. It can help both of you feel more aroused.
4. Create a sexy alter ego
Are you a huge anime or cartoon character lover? Maybe you have a fetish for an air hostess or a nurse? If so, then you should seriously ask your lover to consider getting a sexy costume.
Having sex and dressing up as various characters can be a great way to create fantasies. It can be both pleasure and a lot of fun, as both of you can pretend that your own personas are not real.
5. The sexy sounds
How can you tell if your partner is having a good time during intercourse? One of the easiest ways to do so is by listening to their moaning or gasps.
You should be able to feel comfortable enough to gasp or moan loudly while having sex with your partner. You can also try inhaling into their ears to arouse them.
6. Dirty fetishes
Even though we don’t talk about it, everyone has a secret sexual fetish. Some have a fetish for spanking, while others have a fetish for tearing clothes or voyeurism.
A sexual preference is unique and can be expressed in various ways. If you are not aware of what you have, talk about it with your partner and try to incorporate it into your sex life. Your lover will appreciate knowing that there are other individuals out there who have similar dirty desires.
7. Raw aggressive sex
Although passionate sex is a great way to maintain a romantic relationship, sometimes it can be boring. To try and break the monotonous cycle, try having wild rough sex. Some of these include spanking, biting each other, and tearing each other’s clothes off.
Although it may seem risque at first, the impact of hitting or spanking your partner will send a surge of sexual excitement through your body. Try it, and you’ll know what we mean.
8. A new position
You may not believe us when we tell you that it’s been a while since you tried a new position in bed. Most people get used to the routine of performing the same sex act every time.
If you’re worried that you might end up doing the same old thing every time, try taking a break from the routine and trying something new.
9. Drunk sex
A good time at a party can be had with a few drinks and some naughty acts on the dance floor. Having fun while grinding against your partner in front of other people can provide you with a sexual high.
After returning home, start watching porn, and then have a couple of drinks before getting ready for bed. The sexual excitement that ensues from the high of alcohol can fill you with pleasure as you have sex while you’re intoxicated.
10. Try a new place
Getting bored of watching the same view from the bedroom can be a common issue. Try experimenting with new positions and activities at different times. For instance, car sex can get you going.
11. Mutual masturbation
A hot and passionate time with your partner can be had in different ways. For instance, you can start playing porn or reading an erotic book while you’re in bed. No need to have sex just yet, as you can arouse your partner and masturbate until they reach orgasm.
12. A controlling lover
One partner can take control of the sex, or they can let the other partner do it for them. This type of sex can be very sexy if only one partner is able to exert complete control over the act. A partner can also pretend to be asleep in order to have complete control over the sex.
13. Public display of affection
You don’t need to have sex in public to have fun. It’s the fear of being caught that causes both of you to have a sexy rush while making out. Try having sex at home instead.
You can have sex near the windows so that you can see the world around you, or you can have sex in the car, even if it’s in your own residence. Experiment with new positions and activities so that you can feel both the thrill and the fear of being public.
14. Visual pleasures
While having sex is fun, it’s also fun to watch yourself get pleasured. If you’re looking for a more kinky experience, try having sex close to the mirror, as it will make you feel like both of you are watching each other as you have sex.
You can record yourself having sex and then simultaneously watch porn with your partner.
15. Vacation sex
If you’re looking for an exciting and sexy vacation, then take a trip to a sunny destination. It will allow you to have the best time with your partner.
16. Don’t make sex a routine
Most people start sex with excitement, but it eventually becomes routine. If you want to maintain a hot and steamy experience, start having sex at different times.
When you wake up at night to urinate, start running your hands over your partner until they are aroused. Having sex at odd hours or at random places can make it feel more like an enjoyable activity rather than a chore.
17. Aural pleasure
While having sex, try playing the right songs to enhance your pleasure and make it feel more passionate and sexual. In addition, dimming the lights and moving your body to the rhythm of the music can help you get more aural pleasure.
18. Light bondage
Although bondage and BDSM are not for everyone, if you are not into submission or dominance, then don’t worry. There are still lighter aspects of bondage that you can enjoy.
For example, you can tie your partner’s hands together using a scarf or a bedpost. If you want to go even more extreme, then try blindfolding or completely dominating your partner in bed.
19. Forced sex fantasies
A lot of women enjoy a fantasy where her partner tries to force himself on her while she fends him off. A lot of men also enjoy this type of fantasy as it allows them to overpower their partner without actually hurting them.
Before having sex, try to pretend that you are both strangers. This will help you feel like you are both in control of the situation.
20. Fantasy talk
Ever wondered what your partner would think if you told her about your secret sexual preferences? It could be sordid, crude, or even involve an accomplice? Sometimes, talking about these thoughts can help build a stronger relationship between you.
When you are both in bed, open up about your partner’s sexual preferences and secret desires. If it’s too awkward to talk about it, start talking about it when both of you are having sex.
You can blow your partner’s mind with these provocative ideas, and it will also help you strengthen your connection and get closer to each other.