Every day, there is a new sexual name for things we’ve been doing for a long time. You may have heard the word “cuckquean,” but do you know what it means? You surely heard that a cuckold is a man whose wife has sex with other men. But there is also a female version of this: the cuckquean!
Now, if you want to be a cuckquean, get your mind ready. It’s not as easy as it seems. Why? Because we have a social norm for sex and relationships. Are there other kinds of relationships besides monogamy? Yes, of course. Are they popular? No.
Let’s go over each part of the idea of a cuckquean, what it means, who they are, and why they like particular sexual practices.
What is a cuckquean?
So you have a good idea now. But let’s be more clear here. A cuckquean is the opposite of a cuckold.
In short, a cuckquean is a woman whose husband has sex with other women. A cuckquean gets turned on by seeing her spouse have sex or do anything sexual with another woman. And yes, this is absolutely okay with everyone.
But not all cuckqueans are alike. There is a range of cuckqueans, from the more benign to the most fetishistic.
1. The accidental cuckquean
She knows her husband is cheating on her with another woman, and she doesn’t care. She actually gets turned on by the thought that her spouse is cheating on her.
2. The participating cuckquean
In this case, the lady gets sexual satisfaction from witnessing her husband have sex with another woman while she is there. At times, the lady could engage in sexual activity and partake in a threesome with her husband and another woman.
3. The fetishist cuckquean
At the other end of the scale is the severe fetishist cuckquean, who gets turned on not only by watching her husband have sex with another woman, but also by being verbally insulted and degraded by both of them while she watches them have sex.
As you can see, the word “cuckquean” doesn’t have a straightforward meaning because it can mean everything from mild to wild.
Why do these scenarios arouse a cuckquean?
There are several reasons why someone who loves their partner would find the notion of seeing them have sex with someone else exciting. And here are some amazing explanations why it happens.
1. Compersion
Anyone want to adore someone else? Compersion is the happiness you feel when you see someone else happy. Have you ever loved someone so much that simply seeing them have sex with someone else made you feel great? No? Doesn’t happen to you?
It’s real, and most couples who like the concept of being a cuckold or a cuckquean fall into this group.
2. Jealousy
Everyone knows that jealousy makes you want something much more. We always make people jealous to grab their attention. And this operates in the same way. How can you get your sexual enthusiasm going again if you’ve been with the same person for a long time and aren’t jealous anymore?
Invite someone to bed and watch them have sex with your partner. For a cuckquean, this jealousy can turn into sexual desire, which can help keep their sex life going.
3. Submission
Some women like the concept of giving up all their power in a sexual power play. Being told what to do and humiliated takes away their responsibility during the deed. And seeing their lover happy with someone else is both freeing and exciting.
4. Taboo
The world may be progressively moving toward non-monogamy, but for now, we are mostly a monogamous species by choice. A lady is a cuckquean if she secretly wants to have threesomes, especially with another woman and her spouse. But does it make her strange? Of course not, because a threesome with another woman isn’t only a fantasy for guys; it’s also one of the most prevalent fantasies for women.
5. Sexual fantasy
It’s that simple. A woman may become a cuckquean because she likes to make her and her partner’s sexual desires come true. Have you ever had sex with three people? Want to? It’s difficult to think about, but if a woman is interested in it, she could be a cuckquean, whether she does it in real life or just leaves it as a fantasy.
The roles and participants around a cuckquean
In the cuckquean subculture, the man is normally in charge and the woman does what he says. The cuckquean now has sex with her spouse and the other partner, but this doesn’t always happen.
In a situation that makes a cuckquean, there are three people involved. So let’s find out what those people are named.
- Cuckquean: You know who she is, the wife.
- Hothusband: This is the spouse who has sex with another lady in front of his wife.
- Cuckcake: is a funny word for the woman who sleeps with the husband in front of his wife.
Is being a cuckquean a fetish?
Of course it is! But so is anal sex, having sex in front of a mirror, being naked in public, PDA, or almost anything else that is steadily becoming more common in sexual activity. If someone calls something you like a fetish, that doesn’t mean it’s dirty or wrong.
A few decades ago, anything other than the missionary posture was seen as wrong and depraved. We’ve come a long way, and soon things that used to be prohibited will be “normal.”
A cuckquean relationship is mostly a straight relationship. So, the wife will only have sex with her husband. It can be bisexual, which means that the wife can have sex with either the other woman and husband or only the other woman.
But that’s usually all there is to it; the spouse normally won’t have sex with another man.
Is it the same as swinging?
When you hunt for specifics in fetishes, the lines inevitably start to blur. It’s not the same as swinging if you follow the stringent rules of being a cuckquean and like it when your spouse and his lover trash you while they have sex in front of you.
Things can get a little blurry here also if there are no restrictions about what you can and can’t do sexually. This actually depends on what you and your partner like, but if all three of you are having sex, this is just swinging. But it can also contain BDSM, humiliation, and orgies. It actually depends on the two of them.
How to become a cuckquean
If you want to try being a cuckquean, go ahead. But before you do it, you need think about a few things and get ready for it. You might really enjoy it, or you might find out that it’s not for you.
But before you get to that point, you need to seriously think about what it means to be a cuckquean. It’s always a good idea to be ready.
Talk to your partner about it if you want to know more. Tell them how you feel and ask them what they think. Don’t force them to do it if they don’t want to. Give them some time to think about it, then ask them again in a few weeks. If you don’t both agree on it, you’re just cheating on your relationship.
Things to know and rules to follow to give this a try
Before you talk to your husband or wife about cuckqueans, here are some things you should both constantly remember to make sure everything goes well when you bring someone else into bed.
1. Set boundaries
Setting limits is the most crucial thing to do if your spouse wants to do this. You might not think you need to set limits, but you do.
Sometimes we get carried away when we’re in the thick of the act, which is why those limits are there. So, be sure to set them.
2. There isn’t any cheating involved
A lot of people think this is cheating. No, it’s not. If people think this is cheating, they don’t get what it is. But don’t judge; this is hard for folks to understand. At first, they will be shocked that you want to be with them and have sex with other people at the same time.
3. The minute their permission is not given, it’s betrayal
This is when it turns into cheating. You cheated if you did it anyway without getting permission. Your partner has to agree to do this for it to function. Not following the rules is a betrayal of the deal you made.
4. Have a strong understanding of your sexuality beforehand
Make sure you know yourself well before you do this. Know what you want sexually and what you don’t want. You don’t want to get attached to the third person you’re sleeping with.
5. Test it out with your partner
You probably don’t know what to do if you both agreed to do this and are new at it.
You should set some general rules ahead of time, but you’ll learn what you enjoy and don’t like throughout your first cuckquean experience. You might wish to be more submissive or less, so keep track of what you enjoy and don’t like during the whole process.
6. After your first time, sit down and talk about it
This only works if you talk to your partner about everything. You should know how they feel and what they enjoy and don’t like.
After your first cuckquean adventure, sit down and talk to your partner about it. This will help you set the limits. They learn how to make you happy, and you learn how to make them happy.
7. Find a third partner
Joining a swingers group would be the greatest way to do this. There will be folks there with all kinds of experience who will gently show you the ropes.
These groups are also very well structured and have strong standards for health and safety. You will learn how to have a threesome safely and avoid getting STIs.
You are now fully equipped because you know everything there is to know about being a cuckquean. Enjoy this unique experience and have fun!